Troubles Which Come With Dating A Mexican..
hello guys delightful back to our Route that which was that? fourteen days ago we crafted a video where Joss was referring to the problems which come with dating a German with dating him, exclusively well.. properly right now we’re about to… are you presently okay? I actually have allergy symptoms guy! right now we’re about to transform it around and I’m going to let you know all the troubles that come with dating a Mexican more precisely, this kind of one on this page I’m so fearful of this movie! I’m about to get offended in a big way having said that i know you like I and me know you privately really like all those reasons for me you believe so? I’m sure not every them… how dare you guy simply because like I said before: I have a lot to say… before we start I want to mention one important thing I love you guys. I adore Mexicans. I really like this one specifically Mexico is an extremely different nation and so are the folks.. yes that’s quite correct we come in every personality, color, shape and form and then we don’t desire to generalize anything.. we’re not proclaiming that every Mexican does those ideas! when we say “problems”, these things are not bad we mean that it was problematic for me as a foreigner because it was something new and I had to get used to it and not because I’m a weirdo just like in the last video I’m gonna start with the most obvious problem you have to learn Spanish and even if your partner knows English, like she does eharmony membership cost the parents probably don’t. that’s true there’s a lot of people in Mexico that speak English or at least they know the basics but they’re so scared of speaking because of their accent or something this problem gets even bigger when you think about how big families are in Mexico and that’s the next problem you’re gonna meet a lot of people whenever you meet your boyfriend or girlfriend in Mexico and it’s Christmas, New Year, Independence Day, a wedding a wedding… there are like weddings every month yes thats’ true! be prepared to meet around 100 or 200 individuals a day that happen to be area of the household that happen to be only part of the family! not even friends I don’t know if it’s the same for you guys but in my family, my grandparents from my mom’s side had 11 children the first time that I went to Mexico it was for Christmas I had to meet literally everybody from her family I probably know four names of her entire family don’t get overwhelmed guys… just say hi and act like you know everybody with the next point we’re gonna arrive at a very important part of Mexico: the meal you will get body weight and that is a result of two things: first of all Mexican mums love to make you eat and they give you a lot of food and even when you’re done they ask you are you still hungry? have this! and in addition on top of that it’s difficult to refuse since Mexican foods are extremely delicious Oh yeah my the lord I skip it a lot… you should deliver me Enchiladas Potosinas make sure you! for me way too please another reason why why you’re going to get excess fat as a result of foods are because it’s cost effective when compared with Germany correct! lets go to the next point now, in the last video just mentioned that Germans are usually on time and that was a problem for her because she wasn’t used to that. yeah for me it’s the other way around because she tends to be late all the time… but you too sometimes.. I’m basically also late I’m like Mexican.. you’re 50 % Mexican that’s in fact a stereotype that I hate I dislike when folks let me know: you’re about to be late since you’re Mexican but I’m past due on a regular basis! even though I consider my finest… that’s some thing I’ve battled with eternally the next stage that we were required to get accustomed to a whole lot: you may get terrified although traveling I don’t desire to push in Mexico and in many cases when your companion, in such a case she, is traveling Mexico you, think that: exactly where will be the guidelines? exactly where would be the lines on a lawn that tell you in which lane you have to go and the holes guy oh yeah my god there may be a single neighborhood I have to take every time I visit my house it provides numerous openings.. I discovered them my center I’m like… when you are getting to an intersection there is not actually a principle which says who can go first Of course! – in addition there are no indicators you usually say, usually the one from the greatest neighborhood may go initial but for some reason every one of the Mexicans know where to push it’s good sense bro! it absolutely was the most detrimental in Mexico Area there was one super busy streets so we were coming from a small street and all sorts of the individuals from the small road were actually just moving such as this all around all of those other automobiles in Mexico Town I saw living go through my mind for real like several periods as well as the drivers of your ubers have been like: yeah wassup bro! how’s the weather right now? conversing with us in the long run is in fact fairly impressive due to the fact Mexicans truly learn how to push in crazy scenarios! fine the next stage is really a hilarious a single and also a regrettable one.. often for squares of toilet papers is perhaps all that you’ll get in which did you practical experience that? really! we had been in the industry in Mexico City and I wanted to visit the bathroom and this gentleman right in front virtually gave me several squares of potty document on this page, do your personal style! and so i was like: I don’t know if that’s enough you knew it wasn’t enough! – No and i also informed him: should i have another? I didn’t know this is a challenge for you After all in Germany you can find potty paper appropriate next to the potty.. yeah in Mexico way too! yeah alright that doesn’t occur frequently.. We have to say this taken place like twice if you ask me… haha he’s overreacting! When I was in primary school there was a woman giving the paper oh yeah you told me that before – in the toilet she would ask you: number one or number two? and if you say one she gives you one square and if you say two she would give you two or three great on the other side that’s a good thing because it’s environment-friendly you’re not using more than you need so good for you guys now we get into the real stuff oh no on to the real st- .. I don’t want real stuff this problem comes up even before you start dating Mexicans are very touchy for us foreigners that might be a problem because we might think “oh my god she is flirting with me or he is flirting with me”, but no! this is just the way that they are they’re similar to this… so don’t get the expectations up… They’re obviously girls that are not jealous at all what I’ve experienced with her in the beginning and with your friends when they talk about stuff they can get furious OMG my friends are gonna hate you next time we go to Mexico they are very like “this guy is mine, -OMG it’s crazy I’m so unaware of my body when I’m talking to someone when I first moved to Germany I met a girl at university and we were friends but we were just starting to be friends and one time we were waiting for a bus and I was like “I’m so tired” and I did this to lay on her shoulder and she moved her shoulder very very slowly and my head fell of course guys I’m not saying that every Mexican is touchy let us know in the comments what do you think the next problem is one that mostly foreigner guys might experience because Mexican girls can be very competitive or in other words kind of jealous I’m not saying that every Mexican girl is jealous! and I’m not making him head out! ” that is a tiny bit excessive guys but… can i help remind you of yesterday? Which is a little bit sad because it was fun to watch dude character development I’m totally like.., when we were walking on the street in Germany a guy stared at you and me literally stared back at him like this for five minutes until he stopped staring at me but you’re totally right in that regard when I started dating you I noticed that my perception of love was completely twisted because of what I was surrounded by but now she changed completely she’s super not jealous anymore. -fine you will be like.. and when I began dating you I had been like “incredible a new w0rld! ” We have a hypothesis though and i also know this really is gonna cause me to audio insane but hear me out I think that plenty of this thinking is molded by telenovelas. Don’t arrive to me! do you have seen a Mexican telenovela? -no -the women are incredibly dramatic and they’re so jealous and they’re so like “he’s mine she’s never ever gonna acquire him clear of me! ” the reason why this girl looking at you? this stupid $·Per cent·” footnote: guys can also be very jealous so it’s not only girls just saying don’t come for us the next point is something that I had to get used to and I still have to get used to because it’s still the same it will never change Mexicans show their emotions very very strongly, it has a good side and a bad side Mexicans really show you how much they love you, they’re very affectionate she tells me she loves me like 20 times a day -and Janik it’s like “same” when you’re fighting the emotions come out without a filter and the these emotions are not pretty okay in my defense… I have nothing to defend but I have to say I love this about Mexicans as a foreigner if you date a Mexican I feel like there’s a very high chance you have never experienced anything like that before, this amount of love so it really changes your perspective also about love I think your perspective completely changed yeah the loving side it’s bigger than anything else -yes, yes baby yes! In Mexico a lot of guys do very “gentlemany” things for example they buy flowers, they pick them up at their house, they open the doors and all that stuff so when a Mexican girl is dating a German she’s kind of expecting the same because she doesn’t know that he’s different so then German guys have to step up their game times a thousand ha ha ha ha to make her feel loved, because in her mind this is how love looks like and then I come along, the total opposite it’s basically just a cultural difference and you just have to meet in the middle I would say yes, now if you’re a girl from another country and you’re dating a Mexican guy then it might be super cool for you because he is just picking you up, he brings you roses and you’re like “what is this,. That is see that’s what I mean.. now we get to a very interesting point and I call it “the gentleman dilemma” the thing? I lowered my expectations with you no, big time though.. expectations are the mother of resentment and disappointment now we get to the last point of this video and that’s a very difficult one it has roots in the old traditions of Mexicans or Europeans or religion even as a foreigner you cannot expect sleepovers and that’s a thing that I had to deal with a lot in the beginning like it was super difficult for me to understand why am I not able to stay in the same room as my girlfriend, ” in the end of the day it helped both of us because now I’m more romantic and I’m more cold-hearted ha ha ha ha that is also a plus -no? in Germany people can remain on the girlfriend’s house or ladies know the boyfriend’s residence regardless if they’re below 18, probably 16 they could stay at the friends of boyfriend’s house sinners! and then in Mexico they believe the worst of individuals, they are doing a bit of extremely poor items that they are unable to do anywhere else one of the most frequent messages I get from lovers is ladies that are anxiously asking me how have you make Janik know that he are not able to stay? or how do i make my mothers and fathers fully grasp? it’s so hard. -it’s a hardship on us too -sure either side simply because in the beginning you couldn’t comprehend it you have been like “I don’t buy it” I had been 22 or 23 yrs old whenever we began dating and i also was like “I’m so outdated and I cannot be in the same space as her” and my sibling is even older and her partner couldn’t remain there I’m a mature. If you have a girlfriend from Mexico and you’re having these issues just believe her when she says “this is how it works” -you might not be able to understand why but you just have to accept it I accept it, I respect it whenever I’m in Mexico -or if you like it then you should put a ring on it everything changes it is crazy, -I don’t get it either but it’s just how life works in Mexico.. we don’t want to get deep into it but! Once a ring is on that finger you’re free to go And also this might be more a problem of smaller cities like SLP where everything is like a double moral SLP is not that small. once. If it works differently there let us know in the comments -yeah guys we’re super curious to see what you have to say about this and how does it work wherever you’re from these were the things that I had to get used to in the beginning of us dating obviously love is stronger than all of these problems together and there are so many more good things that come when you date a Mexican or a German oh yeah and that list is way longer so if you want to see a video about that please let us know in the comments down below and if you’re just starting a relationship with a Mexican or with a German hang in there talk about things, communicate, meet in the middle so we hope you liked this video if you liked it give us a thumbs up, subscribe to our channel if you’re not already and we’ll see you next week Adios muchachos Tschuss, – But compared to Mexico City I don’t know!